Blending Religion, Science, and Art

General,books 14 February 2010 | 1 Comment | by amanda

I recently read “The Martian Chronicles” by Ray Bradbury. It is a really interesting collection of stories about the Earth men taking over Mars. Some stories are comical while others are a social commentary on science, racism, censorship, and war.

In one story two Earth Men are discussing the Mars Martians. Spencer explains his view of the Martians to his Captain.

Captain: “It sounds as if the Martians were quite naive.”

Spencer: “Only when it paid to be naive. They quit trying too hard to destroy everything, to humble everything. They blended religion and art and science because, at base, science is no more than an investigation of a miracle we can never explain, and art is an interpretation of that miracle. They never let science crush the aesthetic and the beautiful. It’s all simply a matter of degree. An Earth Man thinks: ‘In that picture, color does not exist, really. A scientist can prove that color is the way the cells are placed in a certain material to reflect light. Therefore, color is not really an actual part of things I happen to see.’ A Martian, far cleverer, would say: ‘This is a fine picture. It came from the hand and the mind of a man inspired. Its idea and color are from life. This thing is good.’ ”

I love that explanation of how religion, science, and art can all co-exist. Science is an investigation of God’s miracle and art is an interpretation of God’s miracle.

Good Bye Jane, You Were Great

General 11 February 2010 | 4 Comments | by amanda

On Monday I was standing in the kitchen typing up an email when I heard a crunching sound from the inside of my laptop. Then the Mac pinwheel started spinning and my screen was frozen. I knew this wasn’t good. I rebooted and got a screen I had never seen before. Based on a recommendation from a forum we tried to reload the operating system, but it didn’t work. My heart sunk. I knew it was the hard drive.

My visit to the Genius Bar the next day at the Apple Store confirmed what I already knew – Jane wasn’t going to make it. That was her name. Jane. I named her after my favorite author, Jane Austen. I was so glad Bre was with me for moral support. She was checking out with her iTouch case when I got the news. I said I would be outside while she finished checking out. While I waited I dried the tears that were trying to make a break for it.

I looked on the bright side. It was a free consult to get the diagnosis. And Genius Bar Guy was really nice and didn’t make fun of me when I told him the name of my computer.

I may have lost a lot of email, but most of my email is still on gmail. I have no idea how exactly it is set up, but my email runs through gmail because of its awesome spam filter. Also, so I can access my email from any computer.

I only lost my iPhone photos. The ones I did like I had uploaded to Facebook or here on this site. So while I lost a lot of photos, I still have a few left in cyberland.

I lost a lot of work I did for the Mentoring Program. I created 7 documents for it and I will need to recreate them from pieces I have in email.

Thankfully almost all my music and camera photos are here on my desktop iMac machine. Yeah, I know, woe is me, I lost my second computer. Still I loved her. She was old, but she went everywhere with me. We got her from Craigslist, so I wouldn’t bother Daniel working in the office. I could shoot emails and write blog posts while the kids screamed around me downstairs. I am adjusting to my new culture – a desktop machine I can basically only access when I don’t have the kids with me and my iPhone. So thankful for my iPhone.

Good Bye, Jane. You were wonderful. I will miss your ever-changing flowers welcoming me. You will be missed!

Visits From the Green Monster: Jealousy

General 8 February 2010 | 11 Comments | by amanda

I’ve had this post about jealousy brewing in my head for a while. I recently read this post by Anne at FlowerDust.net which is a response to Rachel’s post on resentment.  Both are wonderful blogs to read.

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Jealousy happens in everyone. For me I get jealous the most when reading Facebook, Twitter, and blogs. I get jealous when my friends hang out and don’t invite me. I get jealous while looking at my friends’ photos. I wish I had their ability to take brilliant pictures. Even their photo subjects make me jealous. I don’t dress my kids that cute. Their house decorating is beautiful and mine doesn’t even compare. It is so easy to think these thoughts! I don’t mean to think them, they just happen.

I have had to learn how to respond to this jealously. In college I wasn’t so great with handling jealousy and probably missed out on some good friendships. I certainly don’t think I am expert now. I am still prone to sometimes wallow in envy.  I think that is where I get into trouble – when I wallow in the green crud of envy.

I am learning to get over my jealously quickly. I have to dismiss it right away or it can become trouble and divide my friendships. There is kid’s song that says,

“Be careful little minds what you think,
For the Father up above is looking down in love.”

I strive to be careful with my thoughts. I can’t let them run wild as much as it feels good to do it at the time. It’s definitely hard to do it, but I think it gets better with practice.

I have had to realize it is okay that they didn’t invite me to join them. It is not the end of the world! My kids are dressed cute in their own way. My house is beautiful. Then I sometimes I take it a step further. I make plans to hang out with those friends instead of wallowing and complaining that they didn’t invite me. I save up some money to decorate my house. I ask them how they edited their photos. I don’t think responding out of envy is horrible. It helps me not be jealous. So does learning how to be content with what I have.

In Rachel’s blog post she realized that someone was jealous of her perceived life just as she was jealous of someone else too. I forget that someone could be jealous of me just as quickly as I get jealous of them. It’s a vicious cycle.  We all get jealous. It stinks that it happens, but I think we have to learn to overcome it quickly.

Today I am in a New Club, The Thirtysomethings

birthday 3 February 2010 | 4 Comments | by amanda

anumberFirst, let me say that this post is not a ploy to get you to wish me a happy birthday in the comments. I merely want to share how excited I am about my birthday. :)

Today I turn 30 years old. I have been looking forward to this birthday for a while. The other night my friend Wendy was surprised by my enthusiasm, “You are excited to be turning thirty?”  Yeah, I am. I have done a lot in the past decade that I am really proud of. I graduated with my Bachelor’s degree, got married, had a career, made two babies, breastfed both for over a year, and recently ran a marathon. In fact, I am a little tired from my twenties.

I  mark my twenties with high heals, frequent showers, late nights, and a freedom to travel anywhere. Now I am content wearing flats, something I never thought would happen. I still shower often, but somedays I feel like I have to move mountains to get it done. I still stay up late, but I eventually pay for it and I have become more dependent on a morning cuppa. I still love to travel, but I bring a lot more luggage and have to incorporate bed times.

My life is different now, but I love it. I am happy with the status of everything in my life. Daniel and I are recently taking on more leadership at church. I am hopeful with the new challenges that face me. I am thankful for another decade on this earth. I am so blessed and I love my family. I don’t know how my thirties can top my twenties.

Not so fun fact: I have spent at least 5% of my twenties throwing up. Not because I was hungover, but from morning sickness. Not fun. (6 out of 120 months.) I hope I throw up less in my thirties.

I am happy to become a part of the thirtysomething club. My husband has been in it a while now. A few of my friends that have already joined the club all guarantee it is a good decade. I can’t wait to see what is next!

Week in Review Through my iPhone

General,photos 2 February 2010 | 3 Comments | by amanda

I always have my iPhone tethered to my pocket or my hand. That is except when Annabelle takes it from me and turns on “Rocket ship!” (The Little Einsteins) all on her own. I am going to try and take more photos with my iPhone of what I am up to and blog them here. I am inspired by Kara’s iPhone photos. She takes some pretty cool pics with the no-flash, slow camera.

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My former Pastor’s wife, Miss Lynette, gave me this sweater for Christmas. I was texting her a photo of what I looked like in it. I love that she is in her 60s and has an iPhone too.

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Annabelle “reading.” We like hanging in her room after nap. This is the job I love. :)

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We have this slide in our playroom and Roman crawled up it for the first time. Just as I was about to put it away until he got bigger.

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Owen and Annabelle making “Snow” angels in the rocks. This is as close as they will get to making snow angels here in San Antonio.

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Barb and I used our 50% coupon at Madhatters Tea from Restaurant.com. Seriously, a great breakfast menu. I also had Lemon Chamomille tea. Delicious!

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This is what my mornings have looked like lately.  I feel like my decision to start consistent quiet times is very much like potty training. I just woke up one day and decided I was going to do it and it has been easy.

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Morgan and Annabelle playing in puddles at church after MDO. It was really adorable how much fun they were having.

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Roman is growing way too fast and will be walking in a few weeks. I have made no effort to help him learn. For some reason I am not ready for him to be walking yet!

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Chocolate Chocolate cupcake from Kate’s Frosting in Monte Vista. Amazing.

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Flowers at Kate’s Frosting.

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Classic feet photo taken by Annabelle. I just want to eat her little feet. Love them.

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UPS delivered two new books from HaperCollins Publishers for me to read and review. I got on their blog reviewer list a while back. I replied to their latest email, but I wasn’t sure if they were going to come. And they did! I now have a stack of books to get through. I can’t wait!

Recovering

life 24 January 2010 | 3 Comments | by amanda

The stomach bug hit our house this weekend. I was in bed all day Saturday recovering. Daniel took the kids to his parents while I stayed home slurping gatorade and nibbling toast. It was nice to have a nap without the kids being my alarm clock. Although, a text from Daniel asking if Annabelle could skip her nap did wake me. So in a way they were still my alarm clock.

Sunday morning Daniel found Annabelle sleeping in a bed covered in vomit. Poor girl! We never heard her cry or throw up. She was all smiles by the end of the day today. Tomorrow she can resume her regular consumption of fruit snacks.

Needless to say I don’t have any photos for this post. I don’t think you want to see a sad looking mom or Annabelle laying on the couch or a vomit filled trash can. I do have to say my husband was my hero Saturday morning at 4 a.m. I am so thankful he has a strong stomach!

5 Tips for Packing for an Overseas Trip

Travel 21 January 2010 | 3 Comments | by Daniel

wingPacking for an overseas trip that involves a transcontinental flight, whether it be for vacation, work, or a missions trip requires a different perspective from your every day road trip.  Going through the funnel of airport security, plane changes, customs, and unfamiliar forms of public transportation presents unique stresses and strains to the traveler.  Here are five guidelines that I use when traveling abroad to help make my trip easier and more enjoyable.

The typical trip that I am referencing is from 10 to 14 days, but I would use these tips for longer itineraries.

  • Pack only what you can carry

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The first time I went overseas was for a trip to Hungary and Italy.  I didn’t know what to expect and I made the classic rookie mistake of packing way too much.  I only had two pieces of luggage, but one was a hulk of a rolling suitcase and the carry on was a larger sized backpack.  Subconsciously I probably was thinking “There’s extra space – use it.”   While this approach made sense at the beginning of the trip, two weeks in after making multiple city stops and sometimes staying in a room with four other guys where space was at a premium and I didn’t have access to any furniture but a bed, the behemoth suitcase became an albatross that needed constant care and would hinder me while I tried to nimbly negotiate a busy train platform or street intersection.  Rolly luggage is no friend of ancient cobblestone lined streets.  I quickly adopted the tenet of only packing what I can carry easily and even then keeping it very light so that I can have the freedom to pick up things along the journey.

  • Be Non-Crisis Oriented

One personality profile that I learned about in missions training was the Crisis Oriented vs. Non-Crisis Oriented person.  The crisis oriented person is not necessarily always looking for or always involved in a crisis, but they desire to be prepared for each an every situation that they may encounter.  On a trip this translates into rigid time schedules, and packing for every possible problem.  Conversely the non-crisis oriented person is not necessarily flippant and unprepared, but simply takes more of a laid back approach to things.  Not every contingency needs to be covered and prepared for and a certain level of pleasure can be taken in the unknown.  Related with my dismissal of heavy baggage has been my realization that people in other parts of the world have toothpaste.  I know that may come as a shock to some people, but it is a certifiable fact that people around the world lead long and fulfilling product-filled lives.  What I’m trying to say is: If you need something while on a trip, more than likely you will be able to find a store to sell it to you whether it be baby wipes for your infant or a beach towel to sunbathe on Lido beach.

  • Plan on doing laundry while on the trip

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Wearing a piece of clothing once and then carrying it with you for the rest of the trip is just plain impractical.  Doing laundry on a trip has taken three forms for me:  hand washing in a bathroom sink in China, a public laundromat in Italy, having my clothes laundered for me in the Philippines.  A laundry stop allows you time to relax and journal, pack less clothing, and get a glimpse of a non-tourist part of your destination.  When Amanda and I were doing our laundry in Venice we met a couple from, of all places, Austin, Tx.  I have a super non-clothespin laundry line that is made of braided elastic bands which helps in the event of washing clothes by hand.

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  • Don’t be afraid of the paper

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In my every day life I try to be as paperless as possible.  Emailed bank statements instead of mailed.  Google Calendar instead of paper planner.  iPhone with Bible app vs bringing a paper Bible to men’s study.  But, on a trip I make it a point to bring a small notebook that fits into the pocket of my cargo shorts.  In the notebook I’ll put pertinent information like travel itinerary, flight numbers, hotel addresses, and bus schedules.  I’ll also use it at each meal to record everything that I did since the last meal.  At lunch I’ll write down what I did in the morning, anecdotes that can’t be reflected in pictures, or a quote that wouldn’t be funny or make sense at any other time or place  (“All we are saying is give llama’s a chance”).  At dinner I’ll do the same, and at Breakfast I’ll fill in any notes from the previous day.  You can also use it to write down what you ate – Charlotte Marscapone, Lobster flavored corn puffs.  In the hustle and bustle of a trip so many details can be lost if left up to memory or “I’ll write it down later”.

  • Have one splurge

Finally, bring one comfort item that you pack no matter the impact on space or money.  My splurge item when traveling is a good pair of sunglasses.  My current pair of Oalkey’s is beyond my normal $10 sunglasses budget and their case is big and awkward to put in a carry on, but they are comfortable and protect my eyes while in a sea of humanity at the Spanish Fallas or on a boat in the middle of the Bohol sea.

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What are some tips that you follow to pack for traveling overseas?

From the Point of View of Annabelle

photos 20 January 2010 | 10 Comments | by amanda

My 2 year old daughter got a camera for Christmas much like this one.

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Annabelle loves taking pictures. I love it too, because she doesn’t try to use my camera anymore. I also like that she can drop this one on the tile all she wants.

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It is really fun to see how she views the world through her camera. She is as tall as my hip and sometimes she doesn’t take very flattering pictures of me. She loves to go around and tell everyone, “Say Cheese!”  Here are some photos from Annabelle’s point of view.

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A Few of Her Favorite Things

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A Visit With Morgan in the Car After Mother’s Day Out

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A Visit With Anna, Michael, and Sarah Pena

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Annabelle’s Favorite Subject – Her Family!

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Finally, at Annabelle’s request I took a photo of her jumping.

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I know I am going to treasure these photos, because she will be older before I know it and her favorite photo subjects will change.

Rain Down

Prayer,compassion 18 January 2010 | 1 Comment | by amanda

Yesterday my church sang “Rain Down” during worship. I love this song and the lyric that says, “All around the world is singing rain down!” I couldn’t help but think of Haiti. I do pray that God would rain down there with His salvation, love, compassion, medical help, fuel, supplies, comfort, peace, healings, and miracles.

Please continue to pray for Haiti this week.

Here’s the Delirious version of the song to kick start your week.

2010 Word of the Year: Compassion

compassion,life 14 January 2010 | 4 Comments | by amanda

I don’t normally choose a word theme for the year. A few weeks ago while reading my twitter feed I read a tweet that proclaimed that 2010 was the year of something. I don’t even remember what it was. I just remember I immediately thought “2010 is the year of compassion.”

In my Romans study last Fall I came across Romans 12:15:

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I feel like God told me that this is what compassion is – being happy with friends who are happy and being sad when my friends are sad.

This is hard for me and doesn’t come naturally to me. My first response to news is to think of next steps or what I would do in the same situation. I can be very pragmatic about things sometimes.

Recently Daniel needed some compassion from me and I wasn’t very quick to give it. He was struggling to finish work before Christmas and wasn’t happy that he couldn’t finish on time. My response, “Well, you are going to do what you are going to do and I am going to get done what I can.” Needless to say this didn’t go over well. He just wanted me to be sympathetic to his situation. I felt like there wasn’t anything I could do for him other than leave him alone to get his work done. Which then meant I had to get ready for Christmas the best I could alone with the kids. It was just how the situation was. Later, I realized my error and apologized.

You know those two little scriptures at the end of the wonderful Psalm 139 that say:

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.
24 See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.

Well, I think this is a pretty scary thing to pray. I am always afraid God would show me what is offensive in me in front of a large group of people. Thankfully, he didn’t do that and told me in my quiet times. I need to be more compassionate. Jesus was compassionate and I need to be more like Him.

So this is my new word for the year – Compassion. I will be working on it with every opportunity. I am human and may not get it all this year, but at least I know I am in His will trying to be more like Jesus.

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